Satirian Modelling
What is Satirian Modelling?
Known as the "Columbus of Family Therapy".Virginia Satir was born in
Wisconsin on 26th June 1916 and became Americas greatest
family therapist.
Although she did not like the term hypnotherapy because she felt it
to be manipulative, she used techniques that blended Eastern meditations
and spirituality and incorporated meditations and affirmations in her
work. She helped people redesign their lives using a variety of
techniques such as deep breathing and visualization. She said that
"dreams and wishes go together" and encouraged students to use
affirmations such as "I own me. I can engineer me." She showed how
feelings of low self esteem are covered up with the use of different
ways of communicating such as blaming and intellectualizing.
Satir taught her students that people learn beliefs from their family
but that as adults these beliefs may no longer be useful to the
individual. Being afraid to take a risk or letting fear stifle a person
are ways of thinking and feeling that no longer serve that person's best
interests. She set up seminars for helping people create more fulfilling
experiences for themselves.
Much of Satir's early work in the 1940's was based on techniques used
in psychiatry. She went on to use her innate abilities to develop new
strategies for people to be able to grow and help themselves to new
levels of understanding for their relationships. Her beliefs are
wonderfully expressed through what she called her "Five Freedoms."
The Five Freedoms
- The FREEDOM to see and hear what is here, instead of what should be, was, or will be
- The FREEDOM to say what you feel and think, instead of what you should.
- The FREEDOM to feel what you feel, instead of what you ought.
- The FREEDOM to ask for what you want, instead of always waiting for permission.
- The FREEDOM to take risks on your own behalf, instead of choosing to be only "secure" and not rocking the boat.